Posts by: Lisa Etherson

  Warning: this post contains a description of a sexual assault I’m not usually one for getting involved in hyped up, trending, viral campaigns that are designed to create awareness or change. Wearing purple or blue or whatever, was never going to stop my dad from dying of cancer or help my friend who has just been...

  What are we willing to compromise and why? It is not uncommon for people to find themselves engaged in swinging, for example, because they were too fearful to lose their partner if they didn’t. We need to be extremely self reflective and ask ourselves difficult questions such as our potential for jealousy or people...

  Over the last year, I’ve seen a significant increase in the number of people in their early 20’s coming to see me. I see people of all ages, so there’s nothing new in seeing people of this age group, but the concern for me is the reason why they feel they need sex therapy. They’re seeking out professional help...

  When I was training to become a sex therapist, I wrote an essay on masturbation, only to discover that there was hardly any research on female masturbation. I got the impression that researchers didn’t think it was necessary to explore this topic because women just didn’t do that. How wrong they were! Historically,...